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A Relational View of Couples Conflict

Listening beneath the repeated argument to the needs and fears it may protect.

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Zara Hughes
14 July 2026 · 96 reads

Listening beneath the repeated argument to the needs and fears it may protect.

Start with curiosity

Therapeutic work rarely offers a single neat answer. This article brings together practical questions, reflective prompts and ideas shared by WAC members.

Good practice grows when we can remain curious about our own responses.

Ideas to take into practice

  • Slow the conversation down
  • Check assumptions with care
  • Notice what helps the client feel more choice

Members are invited to continue the conversation through their local group.